Change Yourself First to Change the world
“Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.”
– Barack Obama
Life is full of challenges and every day we face a new one.Change is a necessary part of life. Nothing is constant in this world except a change which continues every time and in every little moment of time. It is normal for our routines to change and sometimes it is needed to make our lives interesting such as a new work out plan, new diet, new friends, new activities etc.The concept of change is just for them who really want any improvement in their lives.And obviously improvement starts form yourinside not from outside.Nobody will come to change ,this is only you who can make any difference.Change is usually considered a tough thing for everyone to accept.All the change in the world has been a result of direct and indirect outcome of the change in ourselve.changing ourselves instead of expecting from the people around to change,is so simple but powerful and effective tool.
We spend a lot of time focusing on other people’s faults.We always try to pull legs of others and don,t accept any kind of change in ourself. we never critically evaluate our behavior ,our mistakes or personal flaws.
“Let the best person in your estimation be that person who points out to you your faults and shortcomings and presents them to you as a gift.”
Hazrat Ali (R.A)
If you want to be happy, or you want to be successful , you have to change yourself. If we see history of any country we will aware that the every success story centers around a person who made changes. Andy Warhol, Steve Jobs, and Maya Angelou have set examples of true change lovers.If you are human being then you must be ready for changes. If you want to live a full and complete life with peace of mind you will ready for change.
You can change yourself and you can change the situation but you absolutely cannot change other people. Only they can do that.
Things will never be perfect, but every change can make things better. If you are willing to be honest and dedicated about your life, you have power to change the world, but change must be start from yourself.You have to convince yourself to bring the change in the world.
“Life is a mirror and what you see out there, you must first see inside of you” – Wally “Famous” Amos
Nobody will tell you that change is easy. It’s not easy in any sense, but especially on your mentality and your psyche.The new step that you’ll take will make the difference in your life that you want.
Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.”
How can I lead others if I can’t lead myself? How can others trust me, or I trust others, if I first can’t trust myself? How can I love others if I can’t love myself? All these require change within to achieve.If you change the people within the world, the world then changes as a result – it’s not the other way round. I admire the great charities of this world for doing what they do, and for what they’ve accomplished, but ultimately it’s pointless UNLESS those involved change themselves.
I used to say, ‘I sure hope things will change.’ Then I learned that the only way things are going to change for me is when I change myself .
“The one who has conquered himself is a far greater hero than he who defeated a thousand times a thousand men”
There will always be several things in our life we wish we could change, but the only thing we can do is,change ourself.Let us be the change we wish to see in the world around us.It is possible to change the world but we have to change our inner souls as a main priority.
Remember this, it’s not the world that needs to change, it’s ourselves.
things you wish you could change,